Logo

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 15:21

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

Is it okay if I am not interested to talk to any of my relatives as I saw the real faces in my brother's marriage as none of them helped us rather were a kind of disappointment and were talking bad?

Thank you for the question. Ms. Priya C.

It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

Growing up in this decade.

Which media outlet gave Starmer and his band of failures the most support during the election? Now we can punish them for it.?

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

What do you do when you are struggling to fall asleep?

IIT’s had just been established.

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

Is anyone up to have a little conversation?

Import Substitution was the mantra.

We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

Has Great Britain ever been considered a "hyper-power" like the United States or Russia are currently considered? If not, why?

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

Why did McLaren hope that the Ferrari pair would pit twice during the Italian Grand Prix?

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

What are the best ways to treat seasonal allergies?

On a personal level.

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

> India’s population was around 365 million.

Was there a British ‘genocide’ of Aboriginal Australians?

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

Why don't we hear our own snoring?

Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

Do you love fat pussy?

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

What is the most popular song that includes the word "you"? Are there any other songs that use "you" multiple times?

Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

Jennifer Garner Celebrates Ben Affleck on Father’s Day with Throwback Photo of Him Cuddling 1 of Their Kids - AOL.com

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.

People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

2014- Present

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

Redefined

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.

Pluses:

2014- Present ( Modi).

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)